I'm not familiar with your first two titles, topbilled, but I would say the other two are definitely war films for women.
The first title, THE WAR AGAINST MRS. HADLEY, is an MGM melodrama starring Fay Bainter. It's never been released on home video (to my knowledge) but TCM plays it once or twice a year.
THE GENTLE SEX is an all-star British melodrama produced and narrated by Leslie Howard. It was Howard's last motion picture before his untimely death.