It's sad to see how the peace becomes destroyed in that little valley
It really was but it was inevitable. And I think he was fooling himself in his determination to keep the war away. But who could blame him? All he'd worked for was for his family's future.. and now it was being threatened so why WOULD he want to let things slip away by either sending OR allowing his boys to become involved. But the war was coming and no matter how he tried.. it was NOT going to leave them alone. In fact it more or less parked itself right on his front door. And at least SOME of his sons were prepared to fight.. but he was so steadfast in wanting to keep them OUT of it.. he forgot that they were already in it whether they wanted to be or not.
Was he wrong to try and stay "seperate for so long?" I don't know. I think maybe he was in a way.. because it MIGHT have been easier to bear if he had faced the war WITH his family on their terms.. instead of letting the war force itself upon them all the way it did. If he had been prepared for what was coming.. and made some preparations to get ready and defend his home and family... and let the family be prepared too.. they might have been better able to withstand all that came their way. But he tried so hard to ignore the war, that when it DID show up for him and his kids.. it hit them all in such a way could NOT be ignored any longer.. more or less was like a great big two by four upside the head.
+And I find that one scene with Katharine Ross and the baby just plain horrific. It really scared me as a kid and still does. You see the cost of war to the innocents in this movie, not just men and soldiers
looking for a fight+
That has to be the most disturbing part of the whole film for sure.. but man.. I just kept thinking how ILL-prepared they were. After all that had happened (especially to the boy) they had to know there were soldiers all around.. of BOTH persuasions.. and that some of those soldiers MIGHT wander into their area. (I felt sorry for the wife.. but poor James too.. he was completely caught off guard.. but he SHOULD'NT have been.) Even what happened to the boy could have been prevented (with a little consideration for what it REALLY meant for him to pick up that hat and put in on.. meanwhile he has a gun in his hand. The DAD should have told him not to wear it.. ever. You don't wear any part of the uniform unless you mean it, when there are hostile troops from both sides fighting it out.
I just kept thinking DUH!! Get a clue guys.. there's a WAR on.. but I guess that goes back to what I was saying before.. I think the father tried TOO hard to ignore it.. that maybe they ALL were not as wary of it's danger as they should be.
But then, ha.. I guess if he HAD been better prepared.. and the boy had NOT had the hat on.. and James HAD been packing his rifle by his side at all times out there.. well.. it would have been a whole different MOVIE wouldn't it?? ha.
Oh goodness me.. I sound awfully critical telling them all what I think they should do.. ha. And I don't MEAN to sound negative at all.. because despite all I am saying.. I really DO like this film a LOT. But I just take my movies too personally.. ha. It's like watching a scary movie and you KNOW the bad guy is in the closet.. and you keep yelling "NO.. don't look in the closet.. ha. But pf course they DO and then I just want to hit them for being so dumb for opening the closet.. ha. Dadgum these movie folks.. they JUST never listen do they. ha.) I guess I am just getting bossy in my old age.. (Oh who am I kidding.. I have always been bossy. Alas, too there is likely way too much evidence against me.. to deny it, ha)
Edited by: rohanaka on Aug 1, 2012 2:14 AM