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  1. because we have posters who have spent years online and have learned how to subvert the posting policies of TCM City and bully others.

     

    You're very self-aware, aren't you? One could conclude that stating your modus operandi so openly is an example of feeding one's delight in rubbing people's noses in such habitual and guilefully placed trollings.

  2. Sounds like an unnecessarily harsh view.

     

    Actually, it's a perfectly reasonable reality - not a "view" in any sense.

     

    I'm aware that some people would like to be able to say anything they please without ever receiving feedback that's not to their appreciation. That being the case, I believe such people would be far more suited to writing blogs than to participating in discussion forums.

     

    In such discussion forums, if you say something disagreeable you should not be surprised when you receive disagreement. Quoting keeps such activities clearly understood by the members who read these posts.

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  3. #7. TopBilled

     

    "It says more about what's on your mind than about the films shown on TCM."

     

    Here's an interesting note - a study at Western Illinois University addressed the connection between social media and narcissistic behaviours. Study results confirmed that forums (ie: Facebook and others) provide the perfect environment for narcissists, who have “a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration and an exaggerated sense of self-importance.”

     

    Remind you of anyone?

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  4. I have found it most useful to use: 'Ignore' feature of forum. There are posters who are excellent at provoking others and yet their own posts walk the fine line of not quite so insulting as to become target of moderator. It is by placing those posters in: 'Ignore' list that I avoid temptation to provide information on how bigoted and self-righteous they are....

     

    But you do realize that you've left some of us to fight the good fight by bringing such nefarious activities to the attention of the powers that be without your engagement?

     

    Of course, many of us could simply use the ignore feature as well and join you in paradise, I suppose.

     

    But I won't. I'd feel like a deserter.

  5. I don't want to hurt your feelings so I will try and word this with that in mind.  Do not quote me or post about anything I write.  If you need to confront somebody find somebody else.

     

    Anything you post in a TCM forum can be commented upon.

     

    Those who don't wish their posts to be commented upon by the forum membership can always use personal messaging to express themselves to others on a private basis.

  6. If you're asking related to 'where should I place a topic',  first I wouldn't worry too much about that and I'll let those that do care address that. 

     

    Exactly. Like "posts that derail", we're free to place our posts where we wish - we just have to be willing to absorb a little lecturing and bossiness from a certain type of person.

     

    Easy as cake.

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  7. With this new system, and the system of locking threads and deleting threads, we've had a lot FEWER fights on this board, and that is GOOD.

     

    Actually, I think it has more to do with how much better you've been behaving lately, Fred.

  8. Having participated in the Programming Challenge, I actually don't find that there's much interest in that, as evidenced by the number of votes cast: almost always single digits.

     

    The Challenge is maybe too complex for most of us. It requires one to have a very good memory of the movies one has seen, as well as the analytical skills necessary to break down themes and other connections. And one needs to have seen a great many movies to come up with these lists.

     

    Additionally, one needs the writing talent to express one's reasoning and analysis, as well as the willingness to expend all this effort. As a poster with very little talent - and an absolute dislike of expending effort - I've not been tempted at any time to engage.

     

    I consider the members who do engage in the Challenge to be the cream of the crop of TCM posters. I very much admire their willingness to share their movie knowledge as they do.

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