I don't see the need to bash Peggy Lee
Well, you seem to be confusing criticism of Lee's relatives with criticism of her.
just because her family was expressing their feelings. I also noticed that she was left out of that year's tribute, and I for one am glad that her family had something to say about it.
...did you notice any of the hundreds of other people who worked in Hollywood who were left out, and should all their families have complained? How long is the tribute supposed to be?
Even if Lee's relatives had done only that, it wouldn't have been so bad; the part of their behavior that sucked was whining in an official statement about another dead person's inclusion in the thing.
She deserved to be recognized just as much as Aaliyah did.
The memorial segment isn't about who 'deserved' to be included. Again, which industry workers out of the hundreds who die every year do not deserve to be included?
Peggy may not have had a very big career in movies, but she was very effective in the movies that she did make.
Hey, no argument there, I liked both her acting and music better than Aaliyah's. That doesn't excuse her relatives acting the way they did.
And I'm also glad that the Academy does their "In Memoriam" segment, because it sheds a little light on actors who would otherwise be forgotten if they didn't have some sort of mention.
Generally, the people in that tribute are those who are already famous, so I'd disagree that they would otherwise be forgotten if they weren't included.
Let people see their faces and say "Oh yeah, I remember that person - they were great" or something to that effect.
That happens sometimes, sure. But judging from the variable applause, the audience seems to be wondering "Who the heck is that?" at least as often as they say, "They were great". Obviously, that's not a good thing, especially if the un-applauded person's relatives are watching, and the live audience should be asked to hold all clapping till the end, IMO. But no matter whether they applaud or not, there are always going to be people who are left out of the tribute, whose families will probably feel bad about it.